I wanted to share a moment I experienced at a dive shop recently. A spearfisher walked in, looking for a 7mm wetsuit top — his 5mm simply wasn't cutting it in the chilly SoCal waters.
The store manager laid out several options, but it was clear there was one the spearfisher wasn't fond of. This subtle reaction didn't escape me, though the manager seemed oblivious.
After trying on a couple of suits and feeling increasingly uncomfortable with the process, the spearfisher decided to give that less-favored option a go. I couldn't help but speak up. "But you don't like that one! You shouldn't try on something you don't want," I said, my tone encouraging.
The manager began searching for other alternatives, and the spearfisher whispered, "I don't want to be that guy."
In that instant, I saw the fear script running through his mind.
So, I leaned in, my voice gentle yet firm: "Be that guy for yourself! Always speak your truth. It's better for everyone."
Moments later, the manager returned with a new wetsuit. The spearfisher slipped it on, stepped out with a beaming grin that matched the perfect fit, lighting up the whole room.
Key Takeaways:
- Be True to Yourself: Speaking up helps you make choices that align with your preferences.
- Encourage Others: Your support empowers those around you to voice their feelings too.
- Create a Positive Atmosphere: Honesty fosters a more open and supportive environment for everyone.
- Avoid Assumptions: Don't assume others are comfortable; check in and invite dialogue.
- Embrace Authenticity: Being true to yourself not only enriches your life but uplifts those around you.
Reflection: What's one situation today where you can "be that guy" and embrace your truth?
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